Babies are born to be sociable and want to communicate with those around them. Babies can show us what they need and how they feel from their earliest days.
In the first year of life babies are keen to learn and build communication skills that help them to be understood, and to understand and make sense of the world. Parents and carers are the most important teachers during this time.
From birth your baby will enjoy listening to you and other family members. This can include chatting, singing or reading to them. It can feel a bit strange to begin with and some people say it makes them feel silly but it is important for your baby’s development of understanding, speech and language skills.
Babies love to look at faces and will watch your expression and how your mouth moves. You may notice they try and copy your movements.
The increasing range of babble, shouts and noises your baby makes are an important step towards their first words.
When parents and carers show interest and enjoyment in what their baby has to ‘say’ this will builds their confidence and self esteem. When babies feel listened to they will want to try more and more sounds out. Remember;
When your baby is very first born let them hear your voice – it doesn’t matter what you say. Your voice will be familiar from when they were in the womb and can offer reassurance and comfort.
It will take some time for you to get to know each other. Your baby will give you ‘cues’ that will help you work out what they need and how they are feeling.
Skin to Skin
You may have heard about ‘skin to skin’ time immediately after birth. Holding your baby with their bare skin next to yours has many benefits for carers and baby.
This continues to be a really useful way to help you and your baby get to know each other in the early weeks and months. It can also help calm your baby.
Your baby will probably want to be held a lot as they get used to being in the world. This is an important time and you shouldn’t worry that you will ‘spoil’ your baby or hold them to much. Holding your baby;
Words have a rhythm and a pattern – this is the same when we sing. Babies really enjoy being sung to. It helps them begin to understand how language works.
Babies love nursery rhymes – they are simple and usually have lots of repetition, they are easy to remember and tell simple stories. Children also enjoy you singing along to the radio or ‘made up’ songs.
Children don’t mind how you sound, or what you sing, they just care that you are singing to them – it makes them feel special and loved.
Children’s books with rhymes and simple stories are good. Reading anything from magazines to shopping lists will be enjoyed by your baby.
Some babies get a lot of comfort from sucking on their dummy. It is a personal choice for parents whether they give their baby a dummy or not.
It is advised that babies don’t use a dummy beyond the age of one. One of the reasons for this is that it can slow down speech development.
Ideas that parents have told us they have used to stop dummy use
Things parents have told us
Out & About
Taking your baby out and about is good for them and you – it gives a whole new set of sounds, objects, people and situations for your baby to experience and for you to talk about together.
You can contact the Healthy Child Programme by calling Just One Number on 0300 300 0123 or texting Parentline on 07520 631590. Our opening hours are 8am-6pm Monday-Friday (excluding bank holidays) and 9am-1pm on Saturdays.
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