Having A Baby

CONI (Care of Next Infant) Support

If you, or someone close to you, has experienced baby loss the next pregnancy and the early weeks with your baby can be a difficult time. The CONI (care of next infant) scheme is there to support families through this time. The coronavirus outbreak means that this service is not available in the same way as previously but there is still support available for you and your family.

For those families already on the scheme the support will continue by phone and there is advice and information available online or by calling our Just One Number service on 0300 300 0123.

If you have experienced baby loss and would be eligible for the CONI scheme, your midwife and your Health Visitor will talk to you about this. Thinking about sudden infant death (SIDs) is scary for everyone and especially so if you have already been through the loss of a baby. There are things you and everyone can do to reduce the risks of baby loss and help lower your anxiety.

Dive Deeper

Get Support for Yourself

Losing a baby is a life changing event and you will have times when your grief is hard to manage. Having a new baby is a great joy but it does not take away the sadness you will feel about your baby that died. Be kind to yourself and ask for support on the days that are a struggle.

  • Talk to your partner and understanding friends and family about how you are feeling. Talk about you baby you have lost if you want to, as well as about your pregnancy and new baby.
  • Don’t let your worries grow – you can get in touch with us by calling 0300 300 0123 for advice.
  • There is support available from others who have been through the same experience.

Most new parents will feel stressed at times. This may be more so for you. Click the links below to find out more information on;

If you feel your worries and / or your mood are getting in the way of you being able to enjoy this pregnancy, or your baby, it is really important you get help. You can speak to your midwife, health visitor or GP they will talk to you and help you find a way to start feeling better.

Preparing For Your New Baby

In recent years there has been a lot of research that has helped lower the rate of SIDs. Following the current advice means that you will be doing all you can to keep your baby safe. The advice to all parents is;

  • Make sure your baby does not get too hot.
  • Make sure your baby has a safe place to sleep and has the right bedding.
  • Always put your baby to sleep on their back with their feet at the bottom of the cot/pram.
  • Share a room with your baby for at least the first six months.
  • Stop smoking during pregnancy and make sure your baby is in a smoke free environment.

These guidelines are especially important if your baby was born early or had a low birth weight as their risk is higher.

Read more about safer sleep

Once Baby is Here

Who can help?

If you are not sure whether your child is seriously unwell, call 111 or your GP for advice. Remember that you know your child best. If you think your child is seriously unwell call 999 for an ambulance or go to your nearest A&E department.

You can contact the Healthy Child Programme by calling Just One Number on 0300 300 0123 or texting Parentline on 07520 631590. Our opening hours are 8am-6pm Monday-Friday (excluding bank holidays) and 9am-1pm on Saturdays.

If you are 11-19 you can text ChatHealth on 07480635060 for confidential advice from one of our team.

The Lullaby Trust - Baby Check App - This app has simple checks that you can do if your baby is ill and helps you think about whether they need to see a doctor or health professional.

You can speak to other Norfolk parents and carers by clicking our online community forum below. 

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