What Do I Really Need For My Baby?
- Get Something Safe To Sleep In
- A Safe Seat To Travel In
- Something To Get Out And About In
- Something To Wear
- Equipment To Give Milk Hygienically
Babies should only sleep in something that has been especially designed for a baby to sleep in.
This is very important because it reduces the risk of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (Cot Death)..
You should not let your baby sleep on a chair or sofa. You should not use pillows, baby nests or cot bumpers.
Their cot or crib should be kept clear of anything other than bed linen. This keeps your baby as safe as possible as they sleep.
Prams, cribs, Moses baskets, cots and bouncy chairs are safe for your baby if;
• They have a firm, flat, well fitting waterproof mattress.
Read More about how to check your mattress is safe *here*.
If you are buying a second hand crib or cot, pram;
• Buy a new mattress that has the CE standard label
• Buy from smoke free homes only
• Check the condition carefully – don’t buy if you can see any damage
• If the cot you are buying is old, or a family heirloom, make sure it would pass todays safety standards
Bed linen should not include pillows, duvets, bumpers or quilts. You will need about three sets (one clean, one dirty, one being used)
• Top and bottom sheets.
• Cellular / honeycomb blankets.
It is the law that all babies and children use a car seat until they are 12 (or 135cms whichever comes first)
Even if you do not own a car it is likely that at some point your baby will need to travel in a vehicle.
It is generally advised that the return journey after having your baby is not on public transport and you will need your baby car seat to go home from hospital.
Because you cannot be certain that a second hand car seat has never been in an accident it is recommended that car seats are bought new.
You can learn more about choosing a safe car seat for your baby *here*.
Car seats should just be used for travel – they are not suitable for babies to sit in for long periods.
They can make it harder for your baby to keep their oxygen at a safe level. They are not good for developing spines.
Car seat manufacturers recommend the 2 Hour Rule. This means young babies should spend no longer than 2 hours in a car seat in a 24 hour period. If you are travelling a distance you should stop for breaks and get the baby out of the seat.
It is good for babies and their parents to get out of the house from their earliest days. They need something safe and comfortable to do so.
You might choose to use a sling – holding your baby close helps with bonding.
There are many types of sling and it is up to you what you think will work best.
It is important that slings are used safely.
Follow the Sling Safety Checklist when choosing and using a carrier *here*.
Prams and Pushchairs
There’s a huge range of prams and pushchairs out there. The cost varies a lot.
The most expensive are not necessarily better.
• It should have the CE mark to show it reaches advised standards,
• It should lie flat for your new born
• It should face you so that you can see your baby easily and your baby can see you.
• The mattress should fit well, be firm, waterproof and flat.
Second hand prams are readily available and can be very good value for money.
• They come from a smoke free home.
• That a replacement mattress is still available to buy.
• They have a CE mark.
• They have no visible damage and are in good working order.
Baby clothes are hard to resist. There is loads of choice. It is easy to get carried away and buy more than you need.
Remember your baby will grow quickly. If you buy too much they may not get the chance to wear it.
• Get different layers of clothing for your baby so that you can keep their body temperature stable.
• Do you have easy your access to a washing machine? If you do not have your own you may need more spares.
• Choose baby clothes that are easy to get on and off for the early days. Bibs and muslin cloths to wipe up spits and spills can reduce the need for changing clothes.
Friends and family often buy baby clothes as gifts - it is worth asking them to buy some bigger sizes or ask for vouchers.
Hand-me-downs and second hand baby clothes are a good option – they rarely get worn out. Buy from smoke free homes and wash before use.
Breastfeeding is best for your baby and makes it easier to give milk hygienically.
Whether you are breast or bottle feeding it is important to have a way of sterilising equipment. Anything apart from a breast that is going to come in contact with your baby’s mouth, or the milk they drink should be sterilised.
This means after being washed in warm soapy water the following all need to be sterilised.;
• Breast pump parts and storage containers. Spoons and cups
• All bottle feeding equipment.
You don’t have to spend a lot of money – you can use a plastic container with a lid and sterilising solution. Just make sure all equipment is completely covered by the sterilising fluid. There are steam and microwave sterilisers available too. Whatever you choose be sure to follow all instructions carefully.
In recent times formula milk preparation machines have become available eg ‘Perfect Prep’.
They are not recommended by health experts because there is doubt that the milk is prepared at a safe temperature to kill bacteria.
You can read more about these concerns at First Steps Nutrition.
Who Can Help?
For support or advice young people, families and professionals can contact:
Just One Number for Norfolk Children and Young People’s Health Services Tel: 0300 300 0123 Monday-Friday 9am-5pm Saturday 9am-1pm.
Parents can use Parentline Text messaging service: 07520 631590
Young people aged 11-19 can text Chat Health on 07480635060
Other parents who are going through or have been through this before can be a big help to you, friends or family, or you could join our online forum to speak to Norfolk Parents
click *here* to find out more.