Supporting Children's Social Communication Needs
Resources To Support Children In School
Use the resources to find help and support for a child struggling with social communication:
- Making and Keeping Friendships
- Supporting Learning In The Classroom
- Understanding Social Rules And Difficulties
- Social Isolation And Engaging With Peers
- Other Resources
In children and young people, a friend promotes positive social, cognitive and emotional development and is associated with an increased sense of wellbeing. Having a friend increases a sense of belonging to school and more positive perceptions of school. It is linked to stronger academic performance.
Use the tips and resources below to help a child who is struggling to maintain and keep friendships
- Observe the child in the playground and classroom. See who they play with and how they interact. This can provide clues about behaviours that cause friendship difficulties.
- Meet privately with the child to discuss their friendship issues. This might be for five minutes before school or lunch. A regular check-in each week, fortnight or month may be beneficial. This will reduce the time spent helping the child throughout the year with entrenched friendship, peer acceptance or behaviour issues.
- If the child has not approached you with the issue, first explain why you are talking with them. Talk sensitively about what you have observed in the playground or classroom, rather than what you think. Be specific. For example, ‘I noticed you have been sitting by yourself at lunchtime for the last week.’
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Children with language difficulties can find it difficult to cope in a busy classroom environment.
Use the tips and resources below to help a support a child's learning in the classroom:
Social stories are short descriptions of situations, events or activities, which help a person know what to expect in those situations. They can be illustrated with pictures or photos. Social stories could be used to:
- Help them understand how others might behave in different school situations
- Help them cope with changes to routine / unexpected events
- Give strategies for behaviour (eg. What to do when angry, upset etc)
- Give positive feedback on their areas of strength – improved self-esteem
To find out more about social stories *click here*.
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A person with social communication problems may:
- Say the wrong thing or act the wrong way when talking. He may laugh at the wrong time or start talking about something else.
- Tell stories that do not make sense.
- Use language in limited ways. They may not say hello, goodbye, or thank you. She may yell instead of asking for what she wants.
Use the tips and resources below to help a child who is struggling to understand social rules:
- Use everyday situations - Give your child chances to practice good social communication during the day. For example, practice staying on topic by talking about school. Have your child ask others what they want to eat for dinner to practice asking questions.
- Role-play conversations - Pretend to talk to different people in different situations. For example, have the child explain the rules of a game to different people. Show them how they should talk to a child or an adult. Or, how she would talk to a family member or a stranger.
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For most children school is an important part of their early social life. Being isolated from this can cause problems for them later in life.
Use the tips and resources below to help a child who is struggling to engage with their peers:
- Try to figure out why the child is isolated.
- Arrange social interactions with classmates
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similar to the making and keeping friendships?
Provision Expected at SEN Support (PEaSS) guidance contains specific information on different types SEN. Information includes suggested whole school approaches and support strategies for the classroom.
Talkabout is a structured programme for teaching and measuring social skills. It is a whole scheme of work which helps you assess, teach and measure your work easily. It uses a hierarchical method of teaching social skills and includes activities and plans for interventions. Talkabout resources were produced by Alex Kelly, a speech therapist.
ELSA is an intervention for promoting the emotional wellbeing of children and young people. This is a training programme support assistants can complete; the programme targets developing a child or young person’s social skills, emotional regulation, anxieties and worries and training also covers the area of autism.
Thrive promotes children’s and young people’s positive mental health by helping adults know how to be and what to do in response to their differing and sometimes distressed behaviour. Adopting the Thrive Approach in secondary settings delivers significant positive changes through helping young people understand the changes happening in their brains and bodies during adolescence.
The Zones of Regulation provides a common language and compassionate framework to support positive mental health and skill development for all, while serving as an inclusion strategy for neurodiverse learners, those who have experienced trauma, and/or have specific needs in terms of social, emotional, and behavioural development. ZoR is a useful tool to support children and adolescents with social communication difficulties, supporting self-regulation and emotional control.
The Autism Education Trust (AET) has developed a set of Early Years competency and standards frameworks. The AET Framework Documents can be used by anyone working alongside autistic pupils to support the development of good autism practice.
- Autism Progression Framework Document
- Progression Framework Accompanying Documents
- Competency Framework - This framework can be used by practitioners as a self-reflection tool that enables them to evaluate their practice when supporting autistic pupils
The Autism Resource Suite outlines guidelines, resources and practical strategies for education professionals supporting autistic learners. These resources such as promoting autism inclusive attitude, supporting transition etc were co-developed with autistic young people.
This Autism Toolkit aims to be a 'one stop shop' user-friendly guide to autism for professionals, people affected by autism, clinical commissioning groups, as well as interested members of the public. The link includes articles and research as well as practical and useful checklists and resources.
The toolkit and guidance includes specific guidance about provision for children with social communication difficulties and autism. The framework can be used to identify good provision for children with a range of needs including social communication.
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