Most schools will have an anti-bullying policy as a part of the broader behaviour policy. Creating an anti-bullying policy collaboratively with pupils can be an effective way of the whole school taking ownership of a zero-tolerance approach.
The values and culture of a school makes the difference to whether bullying becomes an entrenched and persistent problem.
Key messages could include;
• The child being bullied is not to blame and does not have to ‘ignore it’ or change how they behave – only the bully should make changes.
• Others in school should feel able to speak out if they are worried someone is being bullied
• Don’t join in to avoid being bullied yourself.
• Offensive or discriminatory language is always challenged in school
• Where to find help – this could include staff, pupil ‘anti-bullying ambassadors’ and prominent display of helplines like Childline
If you discover a child in your school is being bullied prompt and decisive action can make all the difference to the long term outcome of the person being bullied and the person bullying.
Take time to understand what has happened - and how the child or young person is feeling. Is the bullying spilling into out of school? Cyberbullying leaves victims with no respite. Do other pupils or staff have more information that would help your understanding of the situation?
• Ask the child what they think would help them most right now
• Make a plan and record your actions in accordance with your policy
• Plan when you will next check in’ with the pupil
• Discuss if and how they want to talk with their family – then keep the family in the loop
• Plan how best to support the bully – seek to understand the root of their behaviour
The Diana Award on Writing a Bullying Policy can be found *here*
Bullying UK has ideas for schools including lesson plans and in-school campaigns *here*
The NSPCC has information on bullying *here*
‘Stop, Speak, Support’ has information on managing cyber bullying *here*
Kidscape have information on bullying for those working with children *here*
Health for Teens offers information on sexting and cyberbullying *here*
Who can help?
For support or advice young people, families and professionals can contact :
Your Local Pharmacist. Find a local one here
Call 111 – they can reassure you and advise if you need more medical help
Just One Number for Norfolk Children and Young People’s Health Services Tel: 0300 300 0123 Monday-Friday 9am-5pm Saturday 9am-1pm.
Parents can use Parentline Text messaging service: 07520 631590
Young people aged 11-19 can text Chat Health on 07480635060
Other parents who are going through or have been through this before can be a big help to you, friends or family, or you could join our online forum to speak to Norfolk Parents
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Find out about the enhanced School Nurse offer ...(content required?)
And the emotional health pathway *here*