Communication During Pregnancy
Your unborn baby does not care what you say or how you sound, they just feel calmed by the sound of your voice and will start to build the connection between feeling safe and secure and you.
- Talk about anything to them; what you are doing, how you are feeling, what you need from the shops!
- Sing favourite songs, nursery rhymes or something you’ve made up – you sound great to your baby.
- Read a magazine, a children’s book - anything at all. It will give you and your baby the chance to tune into each other and all the time your baby will be getting to know familiar and safe voices.
Encourage your partner to get involved – the baby can get to know their voice and will be able to recognise it when they arrive. Siblings will also really enjoy talking to the bump and sharing songs and stories with them.
Find quiet moments to think about your baby and becoming a parent. Picture meeting your baby and the times you will share.
Right from the outset this will help you feel connected to your baby and will help your relationship with each other grow. This quiet time release oxytocin; a pregnancy hormone that makes you and baby feel good.
Even though partners don’t have those ‘feel good’ hormones – day dreaming about your baby is a lovely thing to do and will help you relax and bond with your son or daughter.
Tune in to your baby’s activity;
- Do they move more at particular times of the day?
- When are they quietest?
- What and who do they react to the most?
You will already be getting to know your little one.
Let your baby know you are thinking about them and keeping them safe. When the baby kicks and moves touch where you feel their movement. You may find that they kick and move in response - showing you they know you are near.
Listen to music together;
- Choose music that you and your baby can relax to. You could play a favourite tune every day.
- After birth babies can be comforted by the music they heard often in the womb.
Who Can Help?
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