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Periods

Most children start their periods when they're about 12, but they can start as early as 8, so it's important to talk to your child from an early age to make sure they're prepared.

Talking about personal subjects like periods can make you and your child feel a little uncomfortable. Remember, periods are completely normal and natural – they're part of growing up. If periods are not talked about within your family it can create anxiety for your child about what’s ahead, which can result in your child stressing over what is a totally natural thing.

Helping your children understand their bodies during this time will make their experience of having their first periods a positive one.

  • The earlier you begin talking to your child about the changes to expect during puberty, the better. Try to do this during smaller conversations over a period of time. If your child asks questions about periods and puberty try and answer them as honestly as you can.

    If your child isn't asking questions, try to start the conversation yourself. You can use some of these tips below to talk to your child;

    • Ask them whether they have heard about puberty and find out what they know so far. 
    • Sharing your own experiences about when you started your period, whether they’re long or short, heavy or light, will help her feel more comfortable.
    • Ask them if she has any questions. 
    • Try watching the video above with your child or reading a book together. There are lots available to order in at your local library. *Click here* to see what is available.

     

  • No one can predict exactly when they will start their first period. This may happen when they are at school or out with their friends, so it is a good thing to make sure they are well prepared just in case you are not there when it starts. 

    • Talk to them about how to use sanitary pads or tampons.
    • Talk about how and when to change the pad or tampons as well as how to throw them away.
    • Make sure you have some in a cupboard give them some to keep in her bag when she goes to school or goes out.
    • If they are at school, let them know that if they think their period has arrived, they can ask to go to the bathroom to check.

    For more information to help your child with the beginning of their period *click here*.

  • Your child may be confused about the different products available in shops. Talk to them about the differences of each product and how they work.

    Both tampons, menstrual cups and towels (or pads) are safe and suitable for children who have just started their periods. It might be worth your child experimenting until they find the product that suits them best.

    The video below explains the differences between the different types of sanitary products.

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